
Life is a moment in space, so goes the lyrics in the song 'Woman in Love' by Barbara Streisand (a.k.a.the nose) with the lyrics written by Barry and Robin Gibb. Cindy Lauper sang about how time after time she is there every time her friend needs a helping hand.
In my kind of work. (defusing time bombs), time is of essence! Sometimes masterly inactivity seem to be the wisest thing to do whilst in other instances I would be accused of sleeping on my job.
Good times, bad times and superstitions arise because of ignorance and the fear of the uncertainty of outcomes of some chain of events. Being apprehensive on possible ominous outcome of certain important events in one's life, it had decreed by our animistic ancestors that certain astronomical positions of planets in relation to the moon, earth and sun may influence end results of events!
In the present time, it appears that this hullabaloo is confined to the Asiatic cultures only. Not wanting to rock the boat or being the direction to which accusing index fingers were to fall, most young Asians just follow suit. Furthermore, the elders are still the majority stakeholders in most family decision-making scenarios.
A good deal of holy men amongst the Indian and Chinese community thrive on this unshakable belief. Their abdominal girth and fleet of cars as well jewel chest is ever expanding.
In the south Indian community, time of delivery of a baby would determine his entire future. Hence, parents would go great lengths to prevent birth of babies in some inauspicious months including preventing consummation of marriage and conjugal activities 40 weeks before these doomed days. In fact, in the Tamil tradition, sex on the first night is only allowed after astronomical nod! (Provided they remain unabated on the shelf prior to deflowering ceremony)
When I was due to be born some 48 years ago, Amma was flabbergasted as the bad month was approaching and there was no sign of labour. As she had a fresh stillbirth before me, anxiety was at all time high. Then came the intense prayer and plea bargains with the Gods (that a gratification prayers would be held afterwards - as if God is hard up for food that human will consume anyway). It was already the 31st day of the good month. By twist of fate or divine intervention, that auspicious month had 32 days and your truly came sprawling out on the 32nd day!
Not being grateful on avoiding the bad month of Aadi, Amma was worried that the time of birth only corresponded to the second best of the birth stars, not the best! (Typical selfish Asian mum). Again, after recalculation and allowance for Malaysian timing (versus Indian timing and other errors like in physics experiments,
ralat in Malay), the star turned out to be indeed the best - how convenient!
The Chinese have their own share of good times and bad. They also have many superstitions to accompany that - elements, number and a gamut of rationalizations under the heading of feng shui.
I know how a Chinese lady who planned her Caesarean Section so meticulously after consulting many mediums and changing the surgery time many times just to have her water bag bursting way before the scheduled date and undergoing an emergency procedure.
A well known Indian soothsayer who is a regular feature on local TV to predict the future for the country on every new year, separated from his wife just to marry a young second wife who fell into depression and was a living hell for him. I bet he did not see that hitting him!
Time after time-Cyndi Lauper
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.Martin Luther King, Jr.