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Alvivi forever and ever?

In the hot seat: Sex bloggers Lee and Tan being interviewed by members of The Star Media Group in Petaling Jaya. — NORAFIF EHSAN / The Star
In the limelight but for how long?
By now we are all too familiar with the now infamous blog 'Sumptuous Eriotica' with the authors' (s)exploits and public display of their supposedly private expression of their casual love. And the hysteria that had followed suit, by the main stream newspapers who would otherwise have to continue churning out oft nauseating news of praise of the ruling party and bashing of the opposition.
The issue, stems from the fact that it is just a difference of importance placed by two different generations. The older generation lived a life trying to pacify the needs of the society whilst sometimes sacrificing personal needs or desires. The newer generation on the other hand live for themselves, to satisfy their needs and care a damn of others. They can all go to hell for all they care. It is already a challenge trying keep pace with others and establishing themselves in this competitive world. Compromising for others is not on their agenda right now. The social norm has changed. The differences between the Eastern and Western accepted social mores have become blurrier as we speak. What was taboo a generation ago in the Eastern culture is now embraced wholeheartedly by the generation next.
Gone are the days where the youngsters are seen and not heard. Their voice are heard loud and clear the world over.
This friction between generations (a.k.a. generation gap) started with the Elvis the Pelvis when he started his hip gyrating rock and roll numbers. Expression of the youth have never been the same...

FG says... It all started in Silicon Valley when everything everything started becoming informal; you don't have to dress up to go to work, you can dress down; you don't have to work fixed hours, you work flexi hours; you don't need hierarchy and cubicle in workplace, you practice open concept; this type of lackadaisical attitude slowly permeated into all facets of daily life; rules and regulations are made to be broken....

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