Saturday, 20 December 2014

Full circle?

So there was this guy who appeared in a similar attire as mine on my 4th birthday bash back in 1967. His grandmother was my parents' landlady when they moved into their first matrimonial place of stay. Their relationship with this matriarchal figure persisted even when they moved into their own home. Hence, the invitation and the photograph....
After the meeting in the late 60s, our lives (both guys in striped shirts) intertwined again in secondary school, though in different classes and off we went again different ways after the 80s.
As luck had it, with the help of social media, some old buddies met up at one friend's daughter's wedding. Midst of it all, a burly chap approached the table we were at, with the most boisterous of laughter. Quickly, he introduced himself. Everyone at the people was looking at each other, hoping that someone could correctly identify him. You see, he had now embraced a new name and new appearance after his wedding. Yes, not only ladies lose their surname but sometimes men lose their and their father's name!
I may not know the whole story, but I thought RK was born Chinese and was adopted by an Indian family. He is now dressed and articulated like a Malay. RK, now RA has lived a full circle amongst the major ethnicities of Peninsular Malaysia. 

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